LONELINESS

Sometimes you never realise you are lonely until you are not busy with some thing,say work, school or friends.There are sometimes when you have some time off from work and you  just have some free time to enjoy yourself,so you try to read,watch a movie,walk around but at the end you find there is something missing.you try to call your friends so you can hang out and as if it is a coincidence ,all of them are busy and so they can't make it.You thought you were okay and relationships suck but then now you feel like may be it is time you rethink about it.I think God was not mistaken to say ,it is not good for a man to be alone.

we can immense ourselves into various activities  to find wholeness,

acomplishment,happiness but just as man can not be fulfilled without  God,so is he without a soulmate,we all need that someone,the one we care about and who cares about us,you can love your
parents,children,siblings,friends but there is that special someone who is meant to make you complete,with whom you will begin to feel you are enough.

For adam on seeing Eve said "truly this is the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh".The point of having a relatioship is not necessarily to provide you with love but to keep you away from hate.As you grow older,life begins to show its true colors and sometimes those colors look like s*** that is why its important to have someone by your side who always reminds you of beauty no matter how dreary things may get.You start to see your soul wither if you don't have love around you.

In Africa food is meant to be shared it really hurts to the bone to always have your meals alone.